
The Biggest Loser
I still recall the very first season.
Who knows what stage of anorexia I was at, what I do recall was being thrilled with the motivation it gave me to exercise after the episode. Obviously, I wasn't the only one. In the beginning, my partner & I would see a number of people heading out of their houses for a brisk evening walk or jog. I thought this was a good thing. As the show continued, I saw the obsession with calorie counting, specific diets and of course, the Sunday nail biter "the weigh in". I wished I could lose as much as them. I couldn't.
As the years went by, in my opinion, the show got worse, more extreme. Today, I cannot watch it for I learned (the hard way) how to manage a healthy weight. All I see in the commercials is contestants being belittled, put down, yelled at, being sick, crying and with forlorn expressions. The saddest part is to think that this show is aired in a very family friendly time slot. Just trying to imagine how many families sit down to watch this program together makes me hang my head in shame. What have we become? I really do feel for all those kids out there that are subject to this propaganda. The messages they must be learning could be not only damaging but life threatening. Let's think about it (from the mind of our inner child)...
- It is ok if people in authority yell at me and call me names,it does make me feel bad about myself but they are "trainers" so they must be "right"
- If i am thin i am worthy of a relationship (think back to the "Singles" series that aired last year).
- People cheer and get excited when I lose weight, it must be VERY important (and being 'big' must be VERY bad).
- I am defined by my size (which is only good if I look like someone who works out at the gym for a living).
- I now associate the word "loser" with someone who is bad (fat, lazy, greedy etc)
Fat shaming, the obesity 'epidemic' and extreme over correction is no way to control expanding waistlines.
Why, as a society, can we not appreciate good deeds, intelligence, kindness and respect? It all comes down to what we/they can sell. I can only be happy that I am now in a fairly strong recovery because programs that embrace unhealthy under eating & obsessional behaviour would only serve as a trigger.

5 comments:
Love you darling. So glad to see you expressing yourself here. And I agree about this show, it's very harmful. ♥
my first comment :)
thank you darlin.
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Love it. PW20 x
Excellent my dear girl, bravo. Xx
Excellent dear girl, bravo!!xx
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